I Statements Worksheets

Related ELA Standard: W.3-4.3

Core Standard

When we begin a sentence with 'I' it often helps us communicate our inner feelings to another person. We often reserve this type of language for instances when we have something that deeply moves us emotionally. It is used in times to describe things that are not easily seen or transparent. The use of 'I' statements regularly can be difficulty for students who may feel it makes them appear to be more vulnerable to their peers. Helping them learn how to effectively communicate their feelings can help them mature emotionally and for the long term. Students need to learn how these statements are delivered is often just as important as what is stated. In this selection of worksheets, we will explore the formation of these statements and help students learn to use their language much more effectively.

I Statements Worksheets to Print:

How I Am Feeling - These can help students explore feelings that they normally avoid.

I Feel - This is more directed than the previous worksheet. This is helpful for really shy students who do not like to share.

I Statements - Respond to each scenario using the format that is indicated.

My Situation - Write down some situations you have been in recently in which you felt that you were not able to communicate how you felt.

From You to I - You will reformat a series of statements using your own thoughts.

Lengthy - We really kick it into a new gear here. These are much more complex sentences and even paragraphs.

Exploring Feelings - You are provided with a specific scenario and asked how you respond or react.

Draw Picture - You will draw images that depict your emotional state.

Bad Days - How would you respond to these bad day situations?

Tell Us - Make an I statement to satisfy each prompt.

Bubble Thoughts - This is great when you are working as a class.

Constructive Interaction - You should craft your thoughts in order to create change, not conflict. You will get some practice here.

Recently - What recent events may have made you angry, hurt, sad, disappointed?

Practice - This allos you to create a system to help you craft these types of thoughts.

Responding - A great worksheet to help you work through your very own process.

How To Write An Assertive Statement


Do you have trouble communicating with others, whether in speech or a written format? Is it hard for you to get your point across without seeming aggressive? If so, then you need to try assertive communication. Assertive communication is a healthy and useful tool to get your point across without hurting anyone's feelings.


But for this, you need to learn a new way of communication. Read on to learn more about assertive communication and how to write an assertive statement.


What Is Assertive Communication?


Assertive communication is a way to express your positive and negative emotions directly and openly. It is your right to display your honest opinions and actions without judging others for theirs. You can advocate for yourself but politely to protect not only your needs and ideas but of others as well. There is a fine line to walk when writing an assertive statement, as it can turn passive or aggressive (or even passive-aggressive) if used in the wrong context.


There are many advantages of using assertiveness in your communication; for example, you protect your needs, build mutual respect and understanding, reduce anxiety and stress, and prevent others from taking advantage of you.


Characteristics Of Assertive Communication/Statement


There are 8 main characteristics of assertive communication, divided into verbal and non-verbal.


Non-Verbal


- Posture
- Tone
- Eye-contact
- Timing
- Gestures and facial expressions


Verbal


- Clarity
- Positive tone
- Non-threatening
- No criticism


There is no definite way to write assertive statements but to ensure your point gets across, you can try the following techniques.


Use "I" Statements


The best way to write assertive statements is to use I-statements. I-statements help you focus on your needs and issues without blaming others. This help strengthens personal and work relationships and makes others more accommodating to your needs.


I-statements include three elements; behavior, feeling, and the tangibleconsequences of those feelings.


Be Specific


Your statement needs to be clear, honest, and specific. Don't give unnecessary information when refusing something. It isn't aggressive, and you aren't obliged to offer extra, but it does help if you can provide a short reason for your refusal. This is not always necessary, but if you have an ongoing relationship with the person, it's useful.


Stay Calm And Repeat


It's very hard to stay true to your needs when the person infront of you keeps insisting that you consider their needs over yours. Here is where you need to stay calm and repeat. This is also known as a repeated assertion. Through this, you can ignore manipulative verbal traps and arguments and stick to your point.


Workable Compromise


If you feel like your self-respect is not in jeopardy, you can come to a workable compromise. Remembers, assertive communication is not only about respecting your needs but also others as well. If a compromise does not negatively affect your feelings and behavior, go for it. However, it is not a necessity.


Writing an assertive statement involves fogging, negative assertion, and negative inquiry. It is the best approach in any situation where you need to be clear and specific about your needs and concerns. We hope this article helped!